Elissa Ely

Elissa Ely

Elissa Ely writes about seniors for The Belmont Voice.

Generations: One Way to Always Have Company

May 27, 2025
Back in the day, someone talking to themselves was a hallmark of trouble. We took it seriously, especially conversations held in public places. The louder the tone, the more an intervention was necessary. Diagnosis did not require nuclear science, and diagnosis was…

Generations: Climbing to New Heights

April 30, 2025
For years, the elevator in my doctor’s Cambridge office building carried patients safely up and down six floors. When COVID arrived, it was no longer safe. Every stranger’s breath was filled with fearful possibility, and even wearing masks, we stood too closely…

Generations: What Lies Behind Library Walls?

April 3, 2025
Day after day after day, the new library rises with exemplary efficiency. All those who put this massive project together—on budget and on time—need a medal and a bonus in a world that usually awards neither. Watching it go up, I feel…

Generations: Life’s Timeline Mapped with Girl Scout Cookies

March 14, 2025
The Girl Scouts in Belmont Center didn’t mind the weather; they were wearing mittens. The Scout mother who shepherded them was wearing ear muffs. On this raw winter morning, they were running on entrepreneurial steam, excellent saleswomen, and business was good. They…

Generations: A Community On the Treatment Tables

January 28, 2025
The physical therapist on Trapelo Road is part magician, part athletic coach, part confessor and, for a limited number of visits, part nearest and dearest. She hands out hope from a drawer of resistance bands. Every orthopedic muscle and ligament is known…

Generations: Time Is Precarious

January 13, 2025
Recently, someone sent me a small framed copy of Banksy’s sketch, “Girl with Balloon.” It’s propped on the kitchen counter, between the mixer stand and the telephone. This is a tenuous location. The telephone is a landline, and when it rings, sometimes…

Generations: One Luxury of Being Older

November 19, 2024
The dog has her needs, just like the rest of us; but unlike the rest of us, every one of them is met with promptness and adoration. Many mornings, for instance, she wants to stroll through Rock Meadow conservation land, past the…

Generations: Human Contact is the Great Redeemer

November 5, 2024
Until a few weeks ago, I would have full-heartedly recommended the nearby gourmet shop’s cinnamon bread to you. I would have served you a toasted slice without butter: naked bread, nothing but proud flavor, sold only twice a week in the store…

Generations: The James I Knew

October 6, 2024
Though he has never met me, I have met James Taylor many times. Half a century ago, his long-haired gaze on the “Sweet Baby James” album cover promised to see me (and only me) through the depths of adolescence. ‘We’re in this…

Generations: The Perfect Wrong Turn

August 13, 2024
Sometimes fate and chance live on the same block. Here is a tale of how turning onto the wrong street 30 years ago led to a 15-year mortgage and a happy home. We were lost, trying to get back to our small…