Coming out is an act of courage for many, owning one’s authentic self and letting others know that being a part of the LGBTQ+ community is a source of pride and belonging.
One might think it’s not so relevant in this day and age, since many hard-fought battles for equal rights have been won. Not so. In fact, we are witnessing the deliberate marginalization and erasure of members of the LGBTQ+ community and the dismantling of progress by the current administration. We thought that this kind of blatant assault on community members’ well-being was a thing of the past, yet we can now see there is an urgent need to reinvigorate our support for LGBTQ+ rights, dignity, and safety.
Fortunately, students at Belmont High School can share their experiences and concerns with others in a supportive environment through the Gender and Sexuality Alliance (GSA). Fern, a co-leader of this student organization, shares her feelings about coming out:
“As National Coming Out Day nears, I remember the dozens of moments I have come out, and the endless cycle created due to it. In being genderfluid, I am made to correct others on who and what I am, as my transness is often forgotten or disregarded as an aspect of my being. And though this is difficult for me, I urge all of us to remember that for all the moments coming out can be scary, unforgiving, and harsh, the act of being you will feel infinitely more rewarding.”
So, on Oct. 11, be sure to support your family, your friends, and yourself in celebrating National Coming Out Day with an extra smile, hug, and donation to your favorite LGBTQ+ group. Learn more at belmontlgbtq.com/ and watch our calendar for upcoming Belmont and regional events.
With Pride in Belmont,
Fran Yuan and Sharon Rich, Belmont LGBTQ+ Alliance